Below Article is the Transcription of discourse given by SRA on Changing Yourself dated 21st March, 2012
Morning Somebody came, he says that "I am having my rental office and then I’ll buy a shop, my own showroom that time i will be at peace. You give me some hypnosis programming; i want to do something great for my business. I am around 45-50 years and i am going towards retirement but still i am on rental showroom for my business. This is running, sometimes ups and sometimes down, it is okay". So i say that "If you are not being peaceful right now, you will never be peaceful. If you are not peaceful right now then you will never be peaceful. What it makes you say that when you have that showroom on your name then you have peace and right now whatever you have a showroom on a rental basis, it is giving you not peace. It is just a thought process". “PERCEPTION”. Let us take perception in this particular example how person should change the perception towards what the morning example has been given . The perception has to be very higher vibrating perception that the place or shop or the showroom or house which you are saying on rental or my ownership place is really yours... No, it is not really yours in reality. It is the psychological impact on a mind that on a legal paper it is mind or it is claiming to be mine. But at the higher truth nothing is yours even this body is not yours. The blood flowing in your body is also not yours so how can you say “this shop is mine. All these possessions are mine”. So the person has to bring the shift in life because that person think and believes that “i will be peaceful when i have my own showroom” that peace will never have once that showroom is in his name also. Because another example i will give you..There is a 70 year old man who is hospitalised right now. He is regularly coming to me and suddenly he had a brain stroke. He Has in his own name, own property, lakhs and crores of rupees, everything. So if getting that place or a business or money or anything for that matter. Once his own name if that would have given a peace and that person should not have a brain stroke. Same is applicable on other person and that funda is there. So it is truth that it will not give you a peace. If you go back in your time, in your own time, you thought that “i want to buy something, I want to get married, i want to have children, i want to have relationship or i want love in life or i want to have something may be the job or money whatever And you said “after doing that i will be peaceful or i will be satisfied or i will be contented” you did that, you experience that. Any one thing you can pick up in your life. Immediately from your past flashes of your memory that X thing you wanted you are very eager to do that and you feel, that give you immense happiness and momentary it gave you happiness. You go back to same सड़ा हुआ दिमाग़, stale दिमाग़ . No fresh thought comes in our mind on a day to daily basis. No new thought comes in our mind. It is a repeated thoughts are everyday it comes in the mind is all. No fresh feeling comes in the mind and that is why it is the stale, जंग लग गया हैं. So you did something, you felt that i will do this. You experience after that for a moment you are a happy and the again same routine boring life you are living now, you are trying for something else that will give you happiness or satisfaction or contentment. Because basically human being is running after only one thing peace, happiness and contentment. If you are running after money that money you are thinking that money will give you the peace. That is why if you are running after settling your business than you are not exactly running after the business. Business is the medium through which you can think that you will buy a peace. You will get a peace or a satisfaction or a security or contentment. But the Only three things we are looking out for if we are running after anything may be a degrees or may be a carrier, may be a relationship also, may be giving a children, a birth to children also. Because basically internally we are looking out for a peace, happiness and harmony. These three things we want the essence is only one and from there all the desires are coming up and we are running after all the desires. You think that if we do this and we get in return this product but we are not clear about this product, we are clear all these wants, desires. You are not clear about this product. So what happens it is the clear cut dream which we are dreaming in the night. If you have dreamed, dream you have. And morning you get up you feel that yes it was the dream and maybe it is scary dream or it is the beautiful dream, may be your wishes fulfilled in dreams but you think that is the dream only. If it is the scary dream you say चलो ओह सपना ही था भूल जाओ but if it is a beautiful dream you say wow शायद सच हो जाए जो सपना देखा, मज़ा आ जाए . you know very well it is a dream. Same way this is a dream you are dreaming that if you get this that you will buy peace , happiness, harmony. Momentary it will be there, it will go. Momentary it will be there, it will go. So that doesn’t mean that we should not have desires. We are not saying we should not have desires. So what is the balance state? Balance state is again coming down to our first saying what we were discussing that you need to change your perception towards anything and everything. So coming down your perception this person should have thought that ITS OK whenever i’ll have my ownership shop that time also i’ll enjoy, right now also i’ll enjoy and the person has to keep working towards it slowly, steadily without keeping in mind that when i will have that i will be peaceful. The problem is we wait for that thing and we never enjoy rite now. So it should not be there in your back of the mind also की no when i have shop that time i will be peaceful or i will be happy. Right now what is there with you? Right now i have beautiful rental place and how can i enjoy that more, right now i have my these beautiful body let me enjoy that. Right now whatever meal you are having in the afternoon let me enjoy that.